
Our home, this universe is blackened beneath the shroud of hatred and loathing, disgraced, distorted with slander, sharpness, and scorn. This world, needs no more hate, needs no more brashness, biting bitterness that leaves teeth marks on the soul, and traces of tears on flesh.

Gentleness is a master of tempers, a treatment for broken hearts, and broken people. A remedy for war, for witless assault, aggression of the human spirit.

Gentleness is my grandmother's fragile footsteps, arriving on the brick porch, lighter than air, the delicate lilt of her voice; soft murmuring and melodies on the radio, crawling through the pint-sized speakers, like sunbeams; the pale moon suspended over an iridescent lake, in the hollow of a forest asleep; sea foam, candle light, a whisper in the night, a mother's lullaby, summer breezes, bliss, a goodnight kiss.

If civilization were to classify gentleness as a gender, it would be female, as it is chiefly regarded by the male as frailty, a fault, a consequential mark in character.

It is past due, though, that the masquerade ends, for a grand finale with gentleness, a theater production, where the ruby red curtains in all their velvet strung glory are parted to unveil that the falsely masked gentleness is in truth a character of refined strength.

Gentleness indeed is not a riddance of strength, but an exercise of strength.

Harsh tones are wind in the wildfire of oppression and brutality. Thereupon, let us embrace a gentle nature, thoughtful with our tones, selective in what we let slip from our tongues. Extend a hand to hold, a smile to bless, an embrace to savor, even for a stranger.

Gentleness is but a wing in the flight of love, and love, faithful love, can redeem this blackened world.

Title Quote: Saint Francis de Sales
Photo Credits: Wendy Bevan for Mary Claire Italy magazine, scanned by Diciassette (17) at www.thefashionspot.com.
140 comments:
hey dear, how are you?what an amazing post you chose to reveal!
i love the photos, they have that 'gentle' sort of light!
the quote is just wonder:)
take care lovely girl!
xoxo,
Gia!
thank you dear, any idea is very well welcomed, especially from a creative person like you!
Love:)
I think that we all fall somewhere in the middle...for the most part I think that I am a "gentle" person but of course the snappy, quick to react person sometimes rears it's not-nearly-as-pretty head. either way, thank you for asking the question and for making it part of our discussion...this post was the best way to start my daily blog reading. happy monday:)
I think I am a gentle person and I only snap at people sometimes, I mean what girl doesn't? Gentleness to me isn't a sign of weakness, it's a sign of strength and compassion. It's being able to accept people for who they are and being able to love. And being a loving and compassionate person are two of the best personality traits ever. (:
i lovee the pictures ; amazing post and i love the way you write ;)
have a good week !
bouchra
Hey S-C,
I would say gentleness ends in kindness shared thru maurity :O). We are only gentle when we feel safe, and secure within our own skin. If not then only fear can bring out a side of anger/snappy in order to protect oneself. I think that's how I become most times
...I'm nice when I feel secure, but become guarded and slighty annoyed when I don't feel safe in a situation.
I am gentle with my children and learning to be gentle again with the world. Great post.
I lve the images, so fragile beauty,
xxx
Oh, I'd say gentleness is a form of strength. It requires restraint from jumping to conclusions, restraint from looking at things through only a personal lens rather than recognizing how your actions affect those around you. Lashing out is easy and instinctual, so yes, the quote is spot on.
And way to go, you, getting all those followers! I was relentless in getting you to start up a tumblr, and yet I only have 20 or so followers! Yours is well-deserved, of course - you always have such great things to share.
Ooooh, I LOVE these photos!
sup dear, how is it going? nice pictures, love that nude shoes in the photo. the world really needs a gentle touch, a reflection of love and strength!
nice as always, take care xoxo
Gentleness wins hands down. And it is a most underrated trait, come to think of it. Do we, men, tend to see gentleness as 'frailty'? Some do, surely, but others ride on its crest, allowing the soft waves underneath to transport us to kinder grounds. I belong to the latter.
Many thanks.
Greetings from London.
Hi darling S-C!
These pictures are so special, and your words so soothing! Another lovely post!
xoxox,
CC
these photos are gorgeous. your blog is beautiful.
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Wow! These pics inspire me! And gentleness, for me, is a way to be..to see the world..
I adore this post, the pictures, the words, your soul <3
all i can say is WOW. those photos are awesome. XOXO
wow this is one of the better editorials i've seen to date. they're almost like paintings.
1) Photos are outstanding.
2) Your 'plume' is ethereal and beautiful, deep, original.
I really can't express the way I feel about your work.
Or I can : pu-bli-ca-tion ! ;D
great photos, the one eith girl in red blouse is best!!
BEAUTIFUL!! the images compliments your writings and vice versa! looove it! ;D
It definitely takes strength to be gentle. It's so much easier to push away with anger and fear, than to bring nearer with courage and gentleness. So practicing gentleness is my motto. It sounds like it is for you too!
Have a lovely day!
I just adore the title to this post. So true and so very beautiful.
I admit that I used to be a lot more of a snappier, hot-headed person than I am now. I'm not sure exactly what changed within me but I am now so much more relaxed, calm, peaceful and quiet. I am always drawn to other gently, calm souls, although I do love my crazier friends! :)
xx
have not visit you in a while. still beautiful thoughts. keep up the great work.
I quite agree gentleness is read as a weakness by our society. I often come across as "mean" and "cold" to people I first meet, but I'm the most loyal and loving person to people that get into my inner circle. Other friends are outwardly gentle and sweet, but they drop you like hot potatoes at the first whiff of trouble...my gentleness is genuine but it is definitely buried under a rocky exterior due to childhood bullying and such. I don't mind it too much...I can deal with people thinking I'm cold if it means they won't try to intimidate or hurt me.
Did you write this??? I love it, espeically along with the pictures. This is a very good post!
Tuesdai Noelle i think was very right in saying that "We are only gentle when we feel safe, and secure within our own skin"
I would say this is me almost all of the time now. I have come to a point in my life when I'm starting to get rid of anyone or anything that doesn't allow me to feel safe and secure...and it feels good!
Once again thank you so much for bringing thoughts that I have brewing deep down to the surface and putting them into words (not to mention beautiful pictures). You truly do have a gift.
x
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What a gorgeous & visually stunning post!
From Wikipedia:
"Gentleness is a value and quality in one's character. Being gentle has a long history in many, but not all cultures.
Gentleness can be viewed as a refinement of character; in difficult times, a thoughtful approach can serve as a model for others; when one thinks only of oneself, and not also of others, then it is easy to hurt others unintentionally."That is SO true, I view myself as a gentle person, quite often putting others interests above mine, which is often seen as a sign of weakness, is not always appreciated, and may sometimes result in me getting hurt by others. I think a lot of strength is required to be gentle, and won't change because of others...
xx
CC
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Wow a deep sigh was exalted reading through this post. I think this one was one of the more potent for me because I'm been feeling really frail lately.
So in saying this I think it is a weakness moreso than a strength. Empathy which in some cases is a deriviative of 'gentle spirits' as you've put it is a virtue and one that is a positive for the individual BUT means there is more base for attack by others if you know what I mean. Like you're opening your soul up to feel more sad than is really necessary but you do so because you have a stronger consious for certain causes.
Nice post! :D
x
these images are so soft and romantic...gorgeous.
*sigh* there are times when I wish I were a bit more gentle.. but most of the time, my aggressiveness is the one that comes through. This happens even with the slightest of triggers, say, "a piece of advice given during one of my sensitive days".
I do agree that gentleness is a sign of strength and not weakness. It takes a lot to maintain that grace under today's pressures.
xox
ps
Thanks for the comment, SC! Im still thinking up designs.. with a busy overthinking mind like ours-- Im sure you know how hard it is to settle on a single idea. haha..
I love this post! I loved reading it and the photos were amazing as always!
x
I LOVE these images! Your words are as beautiful as ever.
Some people say I come across as being "gentle", I guess it has something to do with being naturally shy and my cultural background (apparently my hometown in Indonesia is well-known for it's people being very polite and soft-spoken, which is not always true, but it does play a role).
However, having said all that, the people closest to me knows that I can be extremely harsh too - which I'm not proud of.
love your play on words... kinda oxymoronic and very well written. Keep it up.. love reading yr blog!
i'm very harsh and YES i wish i could be gentler at times.. definitely yes. more after reading this beautiful post!
I am quick to snap and not proud of it :( But I saved this quote from the title and hopefully I'll remember it and be more gentle - it really is a remedie for the soul. So is your blog - thank you.
As usual, amazing photos (I shouldn't even bother saying it anymore ...broken record and whatnot!)
I'm definitely a snappy person. My reactions are very much in the moment, so if someone annoys me or says something I don't agree with, I tend to react without thinking! Then, nearly immediately, I'll feel guilty if I know it was uncalled for and will apologise!
I do wish I was a bit more gentle in my manner. I'm a practical person and very blunt, and most of my friends would come to me for advice or help because they know I'll be very direct with them, and won't mess about trying to spare their feelings, which I think is a good thing.
However, I do find I'd like to be naturally gentle when it comes to people like my boyfriend, who has started to refer to me as Snappy the Turtle!lol!
I think you'd enjoy flipping through European fashion magazines :) The ones from Italy in particular are brimming with great editorials. And of course, clothes :D
Enjoy spring!
Mariel
Nice post, i love the pictures, there are vintage, retro, like the pictures in Lula magazine.
I don't think tgat to be gentle is a sort of weakness, it depends of the situation. x
What a great post! I love your poem and the pictures are beautiful.
these are such wonderful photos.. simply beautiful.
gorge photos, very gentle .
those pictures are so soft but come out in a strong way.wow
lovely
x
lovely post as always. love the editorial here :)
hmmm i think i am harsh on the outside purely because others are harsh to me. but really i'm pretty frail. i rarely ever snap though. haha. i wish other people could be more gentle and understanding. it'd make everything so much easier! you could speak your mind more without being shut down or laughed at :/
What a surprising - but lovely - topic! People always seem to be in a rush today, a touch of gentleness would be very welcome!
I really can't wait for your book. :)
GORGEOUS photos!
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i love the whole look of this .. it has an old looking feel but the models look is one that translates into now so easily
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What a beautiful title. Works so well with the images.
wow... the furniture and the clothes... wanna haaaaaave!!!
thank you for your compliment... i would be so happy if you would follow my blog... i`m just so new in this business and i need some support :)
I love the photos so much; I wish we could all dress like that again =]
Bisous,
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Beautiful post, amazing quote & ethereal photos. Gorgeous blogs lady xx
love these photos and these words together! beautiful.
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what a beautiful post!
how funny...the quote you used at the beginning was SO familiar to me. and of course it was, because my elementary school was St. Frances de Sales!
xox
hey ! thank you to reponding on my blog about the photos !!of course i will credit the photo ;)
see you !!
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lovly pics!
Hello sweet darling!
Amen to your post:)
I really enjoyed reading it and it's interesting how you always seem to touch on the topics that are on my mind...
I try to be gentle most of the time, but I do lose control every once in a very long time, because I still am a human being...But I agree with you that we should all work on ourselves to be stronger and gentle as those two qualities go hand in hand.
xoxo
Mimi
These are so good. That girl Wendy is beautiful.
that is a beautiful title. and the finish of the photos are just something i can't get over..if i could i would blow one up and have it adorn a blank wall.
Stunner of a blog you have there
those photos are gorgeous!
I am in love with these photos!
Ok .. Gentleness, I would say .. Nice pictures tho :) look antik kinda way ;)
Oh I love these images!
absolutely stunning pictures!
x
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Lovee these photos, so old school and beautiful! xx
wow, great sexy shots!
I love the new header
I love the old-time-feel of these images, too.
Missed you<3
xo!!
Fabulous editorial! The fuzziness of the shoot adds so much to it =)
Lovely writing, as always, the first picture is so cool. I want to think that I am a gentle person, but I guess that's something I should ask the rest of the people and not myself...
The pictures are beautiful. I love "Gentleness is but a wing in the flight of love, and love, faithful love, can redeem this blackened world." Your blog is amazing. Please take a look at mine if you have any time! http://pink-silk.blogspot.com/
Thanks
xxxxxxx
I looooove your post title, great quote!
Overall I'm a gentle person I think, but I'm less gentle with my twin sister, I don't know why that is haha! I should work on that....
Have a great weekend S-C!!
amazing post. i love all your work.
Great compilation to the words, well done.
I love how the color of the photographys mingle with the color of your blog.
I love the photos. They look like they were taken here in old Manila, during the 30s, just before the war.
This is Frances from Topaz Horizon, btw =D
Thanks for your comment! Those pictures, beautiful again! You always have those amaaaaaazing posts!
x Love
I love this new layout. looks fabulous and thanks for the sweet words my trip was fantastic!
*bisous*
awesome photos,,,,
really really amazing,
like, really really really fuckin amazing,
oh, actually i'm not very gentle or hot temper, i'm just cover in their middle, it's called normally. yep, i'm the normal one.
ps: dear S-C,
i had changed my blog url,
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Gorgeous<3
Love the post as always <3<3<3
xoxo L.
i loove coming here to see all the gorg pictures and romantic writtings . . .
C.
I love how soft the colors in the photos are.
these photos are so beautiful, they're going straight into the inspiration folder on my laptop!!
what a lovely blog!! i lke every photo you post! your blog inspired me a lot-
congraulation!!!! see you!
such a great post! a gentle word can definitely ease the soul during the roughest of storms.
:)
Awwe, darling S-C, your posts never, ever cease to inspire. When I read your beautiful words, I always feel good inside about the fact that someone else sees things the same as me. I loved this post, and have been feeling a little sad lately about all the hatefulness that seems to be surging everywhere I turn.
I think that is is so hard to remain gentle 24/7, but that it should be something that we all strive towards.
Lovely post. I just adore you, my dear.
hello, first of all i have added your link :)
love the vintage style photographs
and yea i think gentleness is the strength itself, although i am not able to be gentle at every moment. i agree with your statement that it is the master of emotion.
cheers,
fhen
it's a long time since i'v been here, but still you wirte beautifully!i consider my self a gentle person, but of course, we can all be a little harsh some times.. unfortunately.
i loved the photos you have choosen, they match so perfectly to what you write.
i loved this the most: "Gentleness is my grandmother's fragile footsteps, arriving on the brick porch, lighter than air, the delicate lilt of her voice"
thank you for the most lovely reading!
loove
I snap quite easily and then regret it just as fast... Wish I could have a better temper and become more patient. But I keep working on it... maybe someday...
Lovely post and pictures, as always. You are a darling!
Hugs!!!!
What a such beautiful inspiration !!
Beautiful photos and words... Gorgeous. I feel inspired :-D
xxxc
pics look old and so antique, love it!!!
I write this one for your blog:
Love = peace
"If you don't live to lose, you better not live. If you don't need to love, you better leave."
Agree?
Love love love this post and the strong point of view, the ephemeral feeling it evokes...so lovely!
xo
Ooooh, I love these photos!
Love the pictures you posted.
I'm trying to be a gentle person, because I can snap. But sometimes it can be a challange being gentle, in my case everyone tries to walk all over that kindness.
hello darling
how do you do? Much time without knowing about you!
kss
;-)
I have an award for you, just pass by and come and see it <3
And about your question: I think I am both. It is hard to explain, though. I can be gentle and I can be harsh depending on the situation, I don't think gentleness is a weakness though. It's a strength in it's own way.
darling what an amazing post my SC! you could not have picked better images to bring to light your amazing text. i have missed your posts my love.
lovely lovely girl,have a beautiful wknd.
muah x
marian
I just discovered your blog and want to say thank you for creating it. I can't wait until all my exams are over and I'll have time just to spend a day reading through the entire archives.
Take care!
These pics are so beautiful - specially the first ones! I love them.
And I'm going to NYC this July by the way :)
xx
i love the quote on the top!! these beautiful photos speak so many words, like neverending stories. your blog is wonderful:)
wow, just wow! enjoying the vintage feel all around!
I love love LOVE these old looking photos. SO gorgeous :)
I'm usually really gentle...but we all have our moments of being impatient, don't we? :P
xox, mavi
absolutely gorgeous post!
- frouu
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you have an amazing eye to choose photos for your posts, i love it. keep going please, and thanks for sharing
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i love your blog! you always manage to find some of the prettiest photographs.
this makes me want to eat cupcakes with tea in fancy underwear....hmmm.
Beautiful post! lovely blog .x.
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Wow i love your blog its very inspiring, great post:)
Such amazing and beautiful photos!!!
You always have such amazing photos!
Nothing is so strong as gentleness, nothing so gentle as real strength." - that must be one of the most profound statements I have ever heard. It really speaks to me. Having lived in a very male dominated and rather violent society for many years the notion that gentleness is strength really is beautiful.
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